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Any older person could become a victim of abuse
The Gazette, March 23, 2001
A general definition of 'abuse' is - the intentional mistreatment or
harm of another person.
Abusers can be anyone that an older person comes in contact with (eg.
caregivers, landlords, neighbours, friends), but most typically, abusers
are family members of the older person (eg. sons, daughters, or spouses).
In many cases it is very difficult to tell who has a tendancy to be
abusive. People can act very differently when out in public compared to
their behaviour at home. Many abusers have problems dealing with stress.
Stress is often a trigger for abuse. Some abusers have problems with
alcohol or drug abuse.
The following are all considered to be abuse:
1. Financial abuse - This type of abuse is believed to be the most common
form of abuse against seniors in Alberta. It includes theft, mismanagement
of money or the sale of property without consent.
2. Physical abuse - Can include such things as grabbing, hitting,
punching, pushing, hair-pulling, forced sexual activity or physical
restraint.
3. Mental or psychological abuse - Includes such things as ridicule,
threats, humiliation, or destruction of personal belongings.
4. Physical or emotional neglect - Includes withholding food, medical care
or support.
5. Care-giver or institutional abuse - May occur when an older adult is
receiving care either at home or in an institution. This type of abuse by
a caregiver may include physical abuse, mental or psychological abuse,
administering or prescribing medication for an inappropriate purpose,
forced sexual activity, stealing money or valuables, or failing to provide
the necessities of life (food, medical attention).
Older people are often reluctant to talk about abuse because:
- they are embarrassed
- they don't want to believe what is happening to them
- they are hopeful that the abuse will soon stop, especially if the
abuser has promised never to do it again
- they are ashamed of how their family members behave
- they fear being thrown out on the street or being put in a nursing
home or institution
- they are afraid if they speak up things will get even worse
- they have memory or language problems.
If you are in an abusive situation and are over 60 years of age, or
someone you know is in an abusive situation and over 60 years of age, call
the Kerby Rotary House 24 Hour Crisis Line: 705-0661.
Abuse doesn't have to continue.
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