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Changing
tides of time
By V. MOHINI GIRI.
The Hindu Times, July 28, 2002
WAY back in
1971, after the Bangladesh war, I was told by several hundreds of Jawans
dying in the various hospitals, "Do not worry about me but take care
of the ones I leave behind." I had to work on a war-footing to
organise the War Widows Association and I felt very inadequate both in
experience and exposure to get help for the war widows scattered
throughout the country. It was then
that I was approached by several retired government servants, judges,
lawyers and industrialists who offered to help me in this venture. But for
the intervention of the elderly, the Association would not have been able
to lend a hand to the widows. I still
remember Mr. Soni who had retired from the Audits and Accounts; the
65-year-old coming daily to the two-room make-shift office of the
President Bodyguard and helping us with accounts. He taught us the system
of filing, the system of keeping things in order and above all, office
management. It is obvious
there is an urgent need to tap the potential of the elderly towards
national development. Here I would like to mention my recent experience
with the widows of Vrindavan. There was a time when women of Vrindavan
with tonsured head and an emaciated look were begging on the streets. On
May 13, when the entire country was observing solidarity with the sisters
of Gujarat, the widows of Vrindavan did not want to be left behind. Today,
they are not only self-supporting, economically empowered with a strong
sense of self-esteem, but they are also playing an active role in nation
building. Today, their concern is no longer for their next meal, it
extends to empathy for those in distress. Given the
opportunity to play a role commensurate with their background and life
experience, older women can be excellent resource persons in the community
and in the national development process. Unfortunately, these
opportunities were not given in the past, nor envisaged in the National
Policy for Older Persons — possibly due to the mindset that elderly
women are of no use. Old women fall
into two categories — the literate elite needing no support and the vast
majority of middle class and the poverty-stricken for whom old-age homes
and old-age pensions are the only answers. It is often
forgotten that a country like India where motherhood has always been
revered is slowly changing. Although India in 1999 adopted a policy for
the aged, I fail to see how we could put these policies into effect. The
constraints are of course economic, of how and from where to get financial
support for the millions of the elderly in India. Today, our elderly
population has more than doubled. Those between the ages of 60-75 can be
utilised in several fields of activity. I would like to give an example of
one such activity that has been successful. Old widows in
Mathura and Vrindavan are left to the mercy of the public to eke out an
existence. The only way to help them get out of this state is to empower
them with self-sustaining skills. The Guild of Service has been working
with these women for the past two years and is familiar with their
problems. During a free cataract eye camp held in March/April 2000 at
Mathura, a group of widows were recruited to help in nursing of patients.
Their performance was quite satisfactory and indicated that, if trained,
these women could become nursing assistants. Two batches were trained. In
spite of a lack of formal education and age being against them, these
women have proved to be efficient. Today we have
more elderly women than men in spite of the low nutrition the former
receive. A large number of widows outlive men despite accumulated problems
during their reproductive age, and the menopausal and post-menopausal
trauma. We can utilise
the services of elderly women in supervising and assisting activities of
children in homes like the SOS and other such establishments. There are two
categories of elderly women: Those who are educated, have financial
resources, yet are lonesome because their children are not with them and
the other are those who are illiterate, economically deprived and need
care and protection. The Government
of India runs several ICDS programmes, Anganwadi programmes, Primary
Health Centres, the Adult Literacy programme, Panchayati Raj, Poverty
alleviation programme and slum development programme. There is the added
advantage in utilising these women as they are content with the specific
job given and are not always hankering for attention or tempted to skip
jobs for higher emoluments. At Vrindavan,
the elderly widows are keen on taking care of cows for a livelihood. Milk
thus collected could be utilised in producing good quality butter and
buttermilk. The Panchayati
Raj has great potential as older women are found to be experienced,
conscientious and free to take care of community development work. Having run an
NGO for women for the past four decades I have found their usefulness is
tremendous in running various welfare activities. We were fortunate to
have the services of Mr. Puri who is 80 years old. He has been with our
NGO for the past 20 years. Services of such old people also makes them
feel wanted. At the National
Commission for Women I had the privilege of having the services of at
least a dozen consultants in the age group of 65 to 75. The librarian, Mr.
Sahni, was 78 years old and it was only his commitment that saw a good
researched library at the NCW. Mr. Ravindran, 72, headed the complaint
cell at NCW, where we would get 200 complaints a day from across the
country. Dr. Menon was 65 years old and he would attend to the large
section of women in agriculture and with his vast knowledge brought hope
to thousands of tribals and agricultural women by policy changes. The list
is endless. It would not be
out of place to mention that 60 per cent of our parliamentarians are in
the 60-80 age range. Of course, the ethos of national development is not a
high priority in Parliament, otherwise their potential could have been
utilised far better.
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