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Oakland program links youth to elderly
'Bridging the Divide' provides opportunity for sharing, mentoring

By Chauncey Bailey

 Oakland Tribune, August 5, 2003

    

OAKLAND -- Before the Ben Oui Orchestra played a note Sunday at the senior center in East Oakland, Eddie Abrams of the House of Unity turned to 85-year-old Georgeane Anthony.

Abrams explained to a gathering of young and old that an African tradition is to seek the oldest person's approval before starting an event.

"Do we have your permission to begin?" Abrams asked.

"Yes," Anthony said.

Across the room, Brian Darensburg, 16, a student at Castlemont High School, said, "it's good that the youth and seniors are getting together ... we shouldn't disrespect our elders."

On Sunday, the House of Unity -- a community service nonprofit based at Eastmont Town Center -- started a new outreach program at the Senior Citizens Center, 9255 Edes Ave.

Every Sunday from 1 to 5 p.m., youths and elders will gather to swap stories, share a soul food meal and enjoy entertainment.

Called "Bridging the Divide," the program also will be an opportunity for one-on-one mentoring.

As 10-year-old Sharon Sims sang a gospel song Sunday, an elderly woman shouted "sing girl" during the performance.

Daveed Diggs, 21, a staffer at the Martin Luther King Jr. Center who shared some poetry, said, "It's good to bring people of different ages together. We sometimes forget we share the same place."

Abrams is also using the Sunday community brunch to introduce blacks to African culture and traditions that help to build and bind families.

African drummers played and the Diamano Coura, a West African dance company based at the Alice Arts Center, put on a performance Sunday. "There are no nursing homes in Africa," said Naomi Diouf, the troupe's artistic director. "You don't do away with your parents. You do for them."

Diouf, who is from Liberia, was with choreographers from national ballets in Senegal and Guinea.

Abrams said he came up with the idea as a response to the city's rising homicide rate. Too often, young people do not have elders to turn to for advice or direction, he said. "We can get together and not just stay at home crying about the murders," Abrams said. "Let's not wait on anyone. This little light of mine. I'm gonna let it shine."

City Councilmember Desley Brooks (Seminary-Eastmont) called Abrams "a visionary."

Sharing a Sunday soul food meal is an African-American tradition captured in the movie "Soul Food" -- the story of a family in turmoil that always came together to share a Sun-day meal.

"We (the community) are not even eating dinner together," Brooks said.

Culinary arts students from Castlemont High School served plates of chicken or salmon, with greens, rice, black-eyed peas and macaroni at the Sunday event.

There was also cake, soft drinks and slices of watermelon.

Former City Councilmember Leo Bazile, who now teaches a class on globalization at Vista College, said learning about Africa is key.

"Africa is in the spotlight. After 70 years of colonial rule, only 10 percent of Africa's natural resources were tapped," he said.

Alameda County Schools Superintendent Sheila Jordan also stopped by, with residents from North Oakland who use a senior center there.

"Our children need adults and young people," she said. "We all need to respect each other."

Samuel King, 78, who runs the Golden Age Senior Center at Eastmont Town Center, was honored Sunday.


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